The Federal Communications Commission fined AT&T $25 million for failing to protect the personal information, including Social Security numbers, of its customers, the agency said on Wednesday. The penalty is the largest the F.C.C. has ever issued for data security and privacy violations.
Sunday, September 11, 2016
Friday, October 23, 2015
Friday, September 25, 2015
Thursday, September 10, 2015
Unable to change IE's Proxy Settings
* regedit > HKCU\Software\Microsoft\Windows\CurrentVersion > rename Internet Settings
* regedit > HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\Software\Policies\Microsoft\Windows\CurrentVersion\Internet Settings > Permission > add Everyone with Full Control
* regedit > HKCU\Software\Policies\Microsoft > add new key Internet Explorer > add new DWORD value = Proxy, value = 0
* regedit > HKLM\Software\Policies\Microsoft > add new key Internet Explorer > add new DWORD value = Proxy, value = 0
* open IE and choose Run as admin,
* reconfigure proxy server and exceptions and tick to use Automatically detect settings
Note: Please run a malware scan in your computer.
Tuesday, August 11, 2015
Google Drive Is Not Synchronizing Files
What to do if google drive for PC does not synchronize files on your machine?
1. Make sure google drive is running. You can check this by going to the system tray.
2. Go to c:\ Program Files (x86)
3. Click the Google folder.
4. Click Drive.
5. Double click Googledrivesync.
Sunday, June 7, 2015
Kota Kinabalu Tragedy
What happened at Mount Kota Kinabalu is indeed a very heart wrecking event. Nineteen lives were taken during the 5.9 magnitude on Friday June 5, 2015. It said that the strong quake struck at a depth of 10km, with its epicentre located 19km from the town of Ranau, and 54km from Kota Kinabalu.
Apart from the state capital, the tremors were felt in the northern Kudat and Kota Marudu districts, and as far away Beaufort in the south.
A full list of 18 deceased victims of the Mount Kinabalu earthquake has been posted in the search and rescue operations room.
The first two victims brought out from the mountaintop were mountain trainer Robbie Sapinggil, 30, and Singaporean student Peony Wee Ying Ping.
The largest number of foreigners was from Singapore with one group of 29 Singaporean and international students and eight teachers from Tanjong Katong School on an expedition to Mt Kinabalu. Student Prajesh Dhiman Patel, 12, was listed as being seriously injured.
Malaysian Mohd Khairuladzuan Abdul Khalid, 39, was earlier included in the list, but was later to have been in the first batch of rescued victims, but his name was not recorded.
The full list of 19 victims is as follows:
Malaysia:
Lim Choon Seong, 45 (male)
Muhammad Logman Abd Karim, 22 (male)
Mohd Khairuladzuan bin Abd, 39 (male)
Valerian Joannes, Mt Torq staff (male)
Ricky Masarin, Mt Torq staff (male)
Joseph Solugin, mountain guide (male)
Robbie Sapinggi, 30, mountain trainer (male, body recovered on Friday)
Singapore:
Rachel Ho Yann Shilin, 12, (female)
Sonia Jhala, 12, (female)
Emilie Giovanna Ramu, 12, (female)
Ameer Ryyan bin Mohd Aded, 12, (male)
Navdeep Singh Jayral s/o Raj Kumar, 13 (male)
Mohammad Ghazi b Mohamed, 35, (male)
Loo Jian Liang Terrence, 29 (male)
Muhammad Daanish b Amran, 22 (male)
Wee Ying Ping Peony, 12 (female, body recovered Friday)
Philippines:
Karyl Mitzi Higuit Matahom, 12, (female)
Japan
Ozaki Masahiro, 29 (male)
China
Lugi, 35 (male)
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To appease the mountain protector, the 10 western tourists who stripped and urinated on Mount Kinabalu should be fined 10 head of buffalo, according to local customs, says Sabah's chief tribal priest known as Bobolian.
The Bobolian, Tindarama Aman Sirom Simbuna, said on Sunday that the tourists' actions had angered the spirits and guardians of the mountain, which brought about Friday's quake in their rage.
"According to local beliefs, the spirit of the mountain is very angry," he said.
He said the victims of this anger were innocent people who had nothing to do with the indecent behaviour of the tourists.
"The tourists who angered the guardian of the mountain should pay for their mistakes by giving sogit.
"This fine, called sogit in the native tongue, should be in the form of 10 male or female buffaloes," said Tindarama Aman.
He also conveyed the condolences of the state's Bobolian community to affected families.
According to the local beliefs, Mount Kinabalu is the resting place for spirits of the dead before they move on to heaven or hell.
He said that these roaming spirits came be summoned through Bobolians or Tindarama during rituals called 'menolob'.
Tindarama Aman also hailed Deputy Chief Minister Tan Sri Joseph Pairin Kitingan's suggestion for a massive prayer gathering to appease the mountain spirit following the quake that is believed to have left 18 people dead.
source: http://www.thestar.com.my/News/Nation/2015/06/07/Sabah-quake-bobolian/
Friday, May 22, 2015
What Is An IP Address?
What is an IP address?
IP, which stands for Internet Protocol, works like a street
address to pinpoint exactly where you are accessing the Internet from. This
allows information, like web pages and email, to be delivered to you. Every
device (such as a mobile phone, a Wii, a PlayStation console or a computer)
that accesses the Internet must have a unique IP address, which is generally
provided by an internet service provider. Without an IP
address, a device will not be able to get to internet to send and receive
information.
An IP address is a unique number that identifies the
location of a computer or device on a network. The current IP address version
is called IPv4 and a typical public IP address looks like this: 24.128.21.12.
What is IPv6?
IPv6 is the abbreviation for Internet Protocol version 6. We
are currently on Internet Protocol version 4, or IPv4, but IPv6 will be the
next generation protocol for Internet communication. Not only will IPv6 provide
a much larger address space, but it will also provide features such as improved
routing traffic and better security.
What does an IPv6 address look like?
An IPv6 address is much longer than an IPv4 address and
looks something like 24da:db8:ac10:fe01:2aa:ff:fe00:56ab.
Here are a few characteristics of IPv6:
IPv6 contains a combination of both letters and numbers (0
through 9, and A through F).
IPv6 consists of 32 hexadecimal characters in an address and
is 128 bits in length.
An IPv6 address could look like this:
fd98:d3e2:f0fe:0:54ae:34ff:fecc:892, compared to an IPV4 address that looks
like this: 24.128.21.12.
What is the difference between IPv4 and IPv6 addresses?
An IPv4 address is a series of 4 numbers separated by
periods. An example of an IPv4 address is 192.0.2.15.
An IPv6 address is a series of 8 numbers separated by
colons. An example of an IPv6 address is 2001:db8:ac10:fe01:2aa:00ff:fe00:56ab.
Why do we need IPv6?
The Internet has experienced a phenomenal increase of
devices accessing the Internet. Because of this increase, IPv4 addresses are running
out. The solution is for IPv6 to accommodate this increased demand by providing
a much larger address space, along with improved traffic routing and better
security.
Some of the major advantages of IPv6 are:
1.
Larger IP address space: IPv6 has 128-bit
address space or 4 times more address bits compared to IPv4's 32-bit address
space. This large address space will provide enough address space for many
decades to come.
2.
Better security: IPv6 includes security in the
underlying protocol. For example, encryption of packets (ESP: Encapsulated
Security Payload) and authentication of the sender of packets (AH:
Authentication Header).
3.
Consideration to real time: To implement better
support for real-time traffic (such as videoconference), IPv6 includes a flow label
mechanism so routers can more easily recognize where to send information.
4.
Plug and play: IPv6 includes plug and play,
which is easier for novice users to connect their machines to the network.
Essentially, configuration will happen automatically.
5.
Better optimization: IPv6 takes the best of what
made IPv4 successful and gets rid of minor flaws and unused features.
Why can’t IPv4 just be expanded?
There were many proposals regarding how to solve the problem
with the availability of IPv4. The Internet community agreed that the approach
of IPv6 is the best.
If we run out of IPv4 addresses, will that mean I will not
be able to connect to the Internet?
No, you will still be able to connect to the Internet as you
normally do.
Will I need to purchase new equipment to support IPv6?
Your computer probably already supports IPv6, but you should
upgrade to the latest version of your operating system and browser. Most
network-capable consumer electronics don’t use IPv6 yet, but may with a future
software or firmware update.
Will mobile and wireless devices work on IPv6?
Yes. Mobile and wireless devices will work with IPv6.
Is there any way for me to check my IPv6 readiness?
Yes. But call your internet service provider.
Other websites that also provide general IPv6 information
include:
The Internet Society -
http://www.isoc.org/internet/issues/ipv6.shtml
The American Registry of Internet Numbers -
http://www.getipv6.info/index.php/Main_Page
Wikipedia - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/IPv6
Monday, May 18, 2015
How To Run Multiple Yahoo Messenger Simultaneously
There are times that you need to have two or more yahoo messengers at the same time. Here are the steps on how to run multiple messengers simultaneously:
1. Click start and type regedit in the search box for Windows 7 or search regedit for Windows 8.
3. Right click Plural and choose modify.
4. Name the new registry key as Plural, and assign it the value of 1 (decimal).
1. Click start and type regedit in the search box for Windows 7 or search regedit for Windows 8.
2. Go to this path: HKEY_CURRENT_USER\Software\yahoo\pager\Test. Then, on the right pane, right click on the registry editor and select New, then create a new DWORD registry value.
3. Right click Plural and choose modify.
4. Name the new registry key as Plural, and assign it the value of 1 (decimal).
Thursday, May 14, 2015
How To Temporarily Downgrade IE9 to IE8
1. Click
Tools then choose F12 developer tools.
2. In the pop up window, click browser mode and
select Explorer 8.
Monday, May 11, 2015
How To Downgrade IE 11 to IE 8
1. Click the start button and search for appwiz.cpl
2. Go to installed updates.
3. Search for explorer 11 in the search box. Highlight it and uninstall. Restart computer once done.
Saturday, May 9, 2015
Tuesday, April 28, 2015
Mary Jane Veloso Execution Postponed
Defying intense pressure from the international community, the government executed eight death row prisoners early on Wednesday on Nusakambangan prison island near Cilacap in Central Java.
"We've carried out the executions," said an Attorney General’s Office (AGO) official, talking to the press on condition of anonymity.
The eight were Indonesian Zainal Abidin, Australians Andrew Chan and Myuran Sukumaran, Brazilian Rodrigo Gularte, Nigerians Sylvester Obiekwe Nwolise, Raheem Agbaje Salami and Okwudili Oyatanze, Ghanaian Martin Anderson.
Mary Jane Fiesta Veloso of the Philippines was spared after a woman who allegedly recruited her to act as a drug courier gave himself up to police in the Philippines on Tuesday.
"The executions were carried out at 12:30 a.m.," Suhendro Putro, funeral director with the Javanese Christian Church (GKJ) in Cilacap, said in a short message service.
AGO spokesman Tony Spontana said the government had agreed to the final requests fielded by two Australian death-row convicts for their bodies to be flown to Australia for burial.
A Cilacap Police officer said that after the executions, prayers were said for each person according to their respective religion. "The executions went well, without any disruptions," he said.
The AGO stated that the executions had been carried out after it had heard all eight convicts’ final requests.
The execution was the second round after the first was carried out on Jan. 18, during which six inmates from Indonesia, the Netherlands, Brazil, Nigeria, Vietnam and Malawi were killed by firing squad. (ren)
- See more at: http://www.thejakartapost.com/news/2015/04/29/ri-executes-8-drug-convicts.html#sthash.QFwaaroL.dpuf
Sunday, April 26, 2015
Junior New System Dance Troupe
These barely teens are inspiration to some who came from dirt poor that no matter what, dreams can be achieved if you have the determination to do so.
The Junior New System came from the Philippines, have joined many contests and now on the Asia's Got Talent. They won the admiration of the judges for their vigor, energy, their emotions and moves when dancing. Their steps involve combination of ballroom, hip hop and break dance. Watch them as they conquer the stage.
First Show
Semi Finals: They have earned the golden buzzer!
Sunday, April 19, 2015
Trending German and Thai Gay Couple
The pictures of Naparuj Mond Kaendi and Thorsten Mid, gay couple went viral a few days earlier. They were photographed holding hands. These two have been together for two years now and they seem to be happy. Love does not only know no age but also gender.
FCC Fines AT&T $25 Million for Privacy Breach
Employees at AT&T call centers in Mexico, Colombia and the Philippines were found to have stolen the names and full or partial Social Security numbers of about 280,000 of the wireless carrier’s customers in the United States. The workers sold that information to third parties.
In Mexico, the employees were provided specific phone numbers by a third party who went by the alias El Pelón, referring to a bald man in Spanish. From November 2013 to April 2014, the F.C.C. said, the employees sold El Pelón the names and other information tied to those phone numbers. AT&T said it terminated its contract with the Mexican call center in September.
“We’ve changed our policies and strengthened our operations,” AT&T said in a statement. “While any misuse of customer information is serious, we have no reason to believe that the information was used for identity theft or financial fraud against our customers.”
The F.C.C. said it learned of the privacy violations after AT&T reported the activity in Mexico to the California attorney general last year; the agency began investigating the breach in May.
The additional breaches in Colombia and the Philippines were not uncovered until this year, when AT&T reported them to the F.C.C. Those investigations continue, the agency said. It declined to say whether other wireless carriers had relationships with the call centers in question.
“The commission cannot — and will not — stand idly by when a carrier’s lax data-security practices expose the personal information of hundreds of thousands,” Tom Wheeler, chairman of the F.C.C., said in a statement Wednesday.
In addition to the fine, the settlement requires AT&T to notify all affected customers and provide credit-monitoring services. While AT&T still has a relationship with the call centers in Colombia and the Philippines, all the implicated employees have been dismissed, the company and the F.C.C. said, and new measures have been enacted at those call centers to mask private data like Social Security numbers.
“Customers trust that their phone company will zealously guard access to sensitive personal information in customer records,” said Travis LeBlanc, chief of the agency’s enforcement bureau. “We hope that all companies will look to this agreement as guidance.”
Monday, November 10, 2014
Lazada Online Shopping
It has been a long time since I blogged. But I want to share my experience to whoever is going to read this. I hope this serve as a precaution.
I am not into high end smart phones that's why I stick to "old fashioned" phones because I only need it to call and send SMS. I work here in Malaysia in an IT company. When our company changed location which is far from where I live. I have to take a cab to go to work. Sometimes, it is hard to go to work especially if there are a lot of us trying to get a taxi. So I was forced to buy a smartphone so that I can install a very useful app called "myteksi". This app will help me find a cab without waiting for almost an hour.
And so I ordered Samsung Galaxy Y Neo. The first order was cancelled because of unknown reason. I called customer service and they initiated a refund which until now I have not received.
Then I ordered again and paid almost the same amount. Almost, because they gave 20RM voucher as compensation. It's sad that I did not learn my lesson. I ordered the same product. Again, I paid using my card because cash on delivery is not an option. I should have taken the cancellation of the order as an omen. But I went through with the second order. It says in the website, it should include the phone, battery, headset, USB, adaptor and user manual.
But guess what I received. It has missing components i.e. the USB cable and headset. I called customer service again. They wanted me to return the whole item and I have to wait for several days before they can replace it.
Oh no, not again! I asked if they can simply send those missing items to my office. The support person named Zach said, I really have to return the whole package. I thought online shopping is for convenience. There is a reason why I addressed it to the office. I am very busy. I can't wait for someone all the time.
I guess I have to stop shopping from Lazada. This also happened in the lazada.com.ph. I purchased a phone as a gift way back in April, 2014. I addressed it to my brother in law. I paid it using paypal. The delivery guy tried to get payment from my brother in law. My brother-in-law refused to pay and so the guy took back the phone with him. I called customer service several times. Take note, I spent more than the value of the phone just to keep calling Lazada customer service in the Philippines which finally after 3 months, they said somebody has accepted the phone and signed it. They showed me a screenshot of acceptance slip with signature which my brother said, it is not his signature. Finally, I gave up the fight anyway, it was just less than one grand. The phone call is costing me more.
I suggest for everyone who reads this to be very careful. If you can find time, shop physically. Do not rely on online shopping. And as for me. Stop wasting money!!! I should learn from this mistake. This should never happen again.
I am not into high end smart phones that's why I stick to "old fashioned" phones because I only need it to call and send SMS. I work here in Malaysia in an IT company. When our company changed location which is far from where I live. I have to take a cab to go to work. Sometimes, it is hard to go to work especially if there are a lot of us trying to get a taxi. So I was forced to buy a smartphone so that I can install a very useful app called "myteksi". This app will help me find a cab without waiting for almost an hour.
And so I ordered Samsung Galaxy Y Neo. The first order was cancelled because of unknown reason. I called customer service and they initiated a refund which until now I have not received.
Then I ordered again and paid almost the same amount. Almost, because they gave 20RM voucher as compensation. It's sad that I did not learn my lesson. I ordered the same product. Again, I paid using my card because cash on delivery is not an option. I should have taken the cancellation of the order as an omen. But I went through with the second order. It says in the website, it should include the phone, battery, headset, USB, adaptor and user manual.
But guess what I received. It has missing components i.e. the USB cable and headset. I called customer service again. They wanted me to return the whole item and I have to wait for several days before they can replace it.
Oh no, not again! I asked if they can simply send those missing items to my office. The support person named Zach said, I really have to return the whole package. I thought online shopping is for convenience. There is a reason why I addressed it to the office. I am very busy. I can't wait for someone all the time.
I guess I have to stop shopping from Lazada. This also happened in the lazada.com.ph. I purchased a phone as a gift way back in April, 2014. I addressed it to my brother in law. I paid it using paypal. The delivery guy tried to get payment from my brother in law. My brother-in-law refused to pay and so the guy took back the phone with him. I called customer service several times. Take note, I spent more than the value of the phone just to keep calling Lazada customer service in the Philippines which finally after 3 months, they said somebody has accepted the phone and signed it. They showed me a screenshot of acceptance slip with signature which my brother said, it is not his signature. Finally, I gave up the fight anyway, it was just less than one grand. The phone call is costing me more.
I suggest for everyone who reads this to be very careful. If you can find time, shop physically. Do not rely on online shopping. And as for me. Stop wasting money!!! I should learn from this mistake. This should never happen again.
Thursday, February 20, 2014
Thursday, January 9, 2014
Something That Should Make Sense
Listen up, boys. And girls - repeat after me.
My beauty is not for your enjoyment. I did not get up in the morning and make myself pretty so you can ogle me and fit me into your sexual fantasies. My make-up is not there so you can view me like centerfolds whose pages are stuck together from the output of your adolescent frustration.
The way I fixed my hair or sculpted my brows is not so you can judge me according to your standards and put me on a scale of attractiveness or virtue. I have my own, and I hold my own value as a woman.
My body is not for you to touch without my consent, no matter how much of it you see. I am not wearing a short skirt to attract you, or a low neckline to tempt you. My fitted shirt is not an invitation for your hands that have no right to my body. I am my own person, and though some of you may capture my heart, you'll never own me. So please don't act like you do.
Don't act like I'm made up for you, like I seek your valuation or your judgment because of how I dressed today. Don't tell me I deserved that cat call or snide remark just because you can't compliment a woman politely. If you are rejected, or turned down, it doesn't mean I deserve to be called a slut. A woman never deserves to be raped because of how much skin you see.
Dear man, you are not an animal with a jackhammer penis who must drill into orifices or else you'll die. You are a thinking, feeling creature with human logic, empathy, and emotions. You'd never rape your sister or your mother no matter how much of their body you see, so is it too much to expect the same courtesy for me?
Be insulted when you hear that a girl deserved to be assaulted because she was drunk or dressed provocatively. Be enraged when you're told a rapist couldn't help himself because the woman "asked for it." You know the difference between seduction and violation. You know the difference between loving me and forcing yourself on me.
Agreeing that by their actions women want to be violated means that you believe men have no judgment and will rape everything they see. Your mother raised you better than that. If you have doubts, try treating her similarly. Chances are she'll remind you how to treat a woman properly.
Believe it or not, we want to look pretty for ourselves. We make ourselves presentable for own confidence and self-worth. We accentuate our faces and our bodies to feel good and because we feel beautiful. You do not hold the key to our beauty. We do not base our beauty on how many men are staring at us. We do not feel prettier if we hear more rude comments on the street.
We appreciate a kind compliment such as, "You look nice," but do not care for comments on our body parts, necklines, or hem lengths. Imagine how it would feel if a man commented on how much of your rear end or your chest he can see. It's creepy and violating, isn't it?

We resent being told that we must look better, get our hair fixed, or lose weight so we can attract boys. Because we were raised as girls who were told these things, we promise to stop the cycle with our daughters. Let's stop praising our daughters only for their looks, outfits and accessories. Instead, let's comment on their skills and intelligence and ask them what exciting projects they're working on in school.
Let's tell our sons and daughters that the women on EDSA's billboards are not real, that they're airbrushed, nipped and tucked, chemically treated, or surgically altered. Let's tell them that a real woman is like their mommy, auntie, or lola.
Real women have curves, and blemishes, and stretch marks, and body hair. Real women don't use skin whiteners. Real women are proud of what they see in the mirror in the morning. Real women want to be healthy, not skinny.
Most importantly - let's tell our children that real men love real women who aren't hopelessly chasing the unreachable goal of the thin, flawless, and ageless woman at whatever cost. Real women have wrinkles because they've lived. Real women aren't emaciated because they like to eat. And real men enjoy the company of real women, not that of mannequins who have invested so much in their looks that they've forgotten to think.
Maybe then we can raise a generation of men who value women as more than objects to present or reasons to gloat. Maybe men will choose women as partners for life, instead of just bearers of their children and keepers of their homes.
And maybe we can raise women to believe that they were born with beauty, and that it is a gift that does not decrease nor diminish depending on the number of people who agree. Maybe they'll feel pride in the first sight of their faces and bodies in the mirror instead of a desire to cover things up, to change their features, be thinner, lighter-skinned, brighter-eyed, and fuller-lipped.
How great would it be to look at our reflection and see everything that's right, instead of everything that's wrong?Maybe then our women will walk out into a world where they don't crave the approval of others, or have to judge their appearance against a fashion magazine. Maybe it could be a world where women will be able to say, "I am not pretty for your pleasure. I am beautiful for me, by me, and as me." - Rappler.com
Flexing woman, Billboard and Scared Man from shutterstock
Shakira Andrea Sison is a Palanca Award-winning essayist. She currently works in finance and spends her non-working hours contemplating maybes in subway trains. She is a veterinarian by education and was managing a retail corporation in Manila before relocating to New York in 2002. Her column appears on Thursdays. Follow her on Twitter: @shakirasison and on Facebook.com/sisonshakira.
My beauty is not for your enjoyment. I did not get up in the morning and make myself pretty so you can ogle me and fit me into your sexual fantasies. My make-up is not there so you can view me like centerfolds whose pages are stuck together from the output of your adolescent frustration.
The way I fixed my hair or sculpted my brows is not so you can judge me according to your standards and put me on a scale of attractiveness or virtue. I have my own, and I hold my own value as a woman.
My body is not for you to touch without my consent, no matter how much of it you see. I am not wearing a short skirt to attract you, or a low neckline to tempt you. My fitted shirt is not an invitation for your hands that have no right to my body. I am my own person, and though some of you may capture my heart, you'll never own me. So please don't act like you do.
Don't act like I'm made up for you, like I seek your valuation or your judgment because of how I dressed today. Don't tell me I deserved that cat call or snide remark just because you can't compliment a woman politely. If you are rejected, or turned down, it doesn't mean I deserve to be called a slut. A woman never deserves to be raped because of how much skin you see.
Dear man, you are not an animal with a jackhammer penis who must drill into orifices or else you'll die. You are a thinking, feeling creature with human logic, empathy, and emotions. You'd never rape your sister or your mother no matter how much of their body you see, so is it too much to expect the same courtesy for me?
Be insulted when you hear that a girl deserved to be assaulted because she was drunk or dressed provocatively. Be enraged when you're told a rapist couldn't help himself because the woman "asked for it." You know the difference between seduction and violation. You know the difference between loving me and forcing yourself on me.
Agreeing that by their actions women want to be violated means that you believe men have no judgment and will rape everything they see. Your mother raised you better than that. If you have doubts, try treating her similarly. Chances are she'll remind you how to treat a woman properly.
Believe it or not, we want to look pretty for ourselves. We make ourselves presentable for own confidence and self-worth. We accentuate our faces and our bodies to feel good and because we feel beautiful. You do not hold the key to our beauty. We do not base our beauty on how many men are staring at us. We do not feel prettier if we hear more rude comments on the street.
We appreciate a kind compliment such as, "You look nice," but do not care for comments on our body parts, necklines, or hem lengths. Imagine how it would feel if a man commented on how much of your rear end or your chest he can see. It's creepy and violating, isn't it?

We resent being told that we must look better, get our hair fixed, or lose weight so we can attract boys. Because we were raised as girls who were told these things, we promise to stop the cycle with our daughters. Let's stop praising our daughters only for their looks, outfits and accessories. Instead, let's comment on their skills and intelligence and ask them what exciting projects they're working on in school.
Let's tell our sons and daughters that the women on EDSA's billboards are not real, that they're airbrushed, nipped and tucked, chemically treated, or surgically altered. Let's tell them that a real woman is like their mommy, auntie, or lola.
Real women have curves, and blemishes, and stretch marks, and body hair. Real women don't use skin whiteners. Real women are proud of what they see in the mirror in the morning. Real women want to be healthy, not skinny.
Most importantly - let's tell our children that real men love real women who aren't hopelessly chasing the unreachable goal of the thin, flawless, and ageless woman at whatever cost. Real women have wrinkles because they've lived. Real women aren't emaciated because they like to eat. And real men enjoy the company of real women, not that of mannequins who have invested so much in their looks that they've forgotten to think.
Maybe then we can raise a generation of men who value women as more than objects to present or reasons to gloat. Maybe men will choose women as partners for life, instead of just bearers of their children and keepers of their homes.
And maybe we can raise women to believe that they were born with beauty, and that it is a gift that does not decrease nor diminish depending on the number of people who agree. Maybe they'll feel pride in the first sight of their faces and bodies in the mirror instead of a desire to cover things up, to change their features, be thinner, lighter-skinned, brighter-eyed, and fuller-lipped.
How great would it be to look at our reflection and see everything that's right, instead of everything that's wrong?Maybe then our women will walk out into a world where they don't crave the approval of others, or have to judge their appearance against a fashion magazine. Maybe it could be a world where women will be able to say, "I am not pretty for your pleasure. I am beautiful for me, by me, and as me." - Rappler.com
Flexing woman, Billboard and Scared Man from shutterstock
Shakira Andrea Sison is a Palanca Award-winning essayist. She currently works in finance and spends her non-working hours contemplating maybes in subway trains. She is a veterinarian by education and was managing a retail corporation in Manila before relocating to New York in 2002. Her column appears on Thursdays. Follow her on Twitter: @shakirasison and on Facebook.com/sisonshakira.
Monday, January 6, 2014
FYI
Did you know..??
* VIRUS - Vital Information Resource UnderSeized.
* 3G -3rd Generation.
* GSM - Global System for Mobile Communication.
* CDMA - Code Divison Multiple Access.
* UMTS - Universal MobileTelecommunication System.
* SIM - Subscriber Identity Module .
* AVI = Audio Video Interleave
* RTS = Real Time Streaming
* SIS = Symbian OS Installer File
* AMR = Adaptive Multi-Rate Codec
* JAD = Java Application Descriptor
* JAR = Java Archive
* JAD = Java Application Descriptor
* 3GPP = 3rd Generation Partnership Project
* 3GP = 3rd Generation Project
* MP3 = MPEG player lll
* MP4 = MPEG-4 video file
*AAC = Advanced Audio Coding
* GIF= Graphic Interchangeable Format
* JPEG = Joint Photographic Expert Group
* BMP = Bitmap
* SWF = Shock Wave Flash
* WMV = Windows Media Video
* WMA = Windows Media Audio
* WAV = Waveform Audio
* PNG = Portable Network Graphics
* DOC = Document (MicrosoftCorporation)
* PDF = Portable Document Format
* M3G = Mobile 3D Graphics
* M4A = MPEG-4 Audio File
* NTH = Nokia Theme (series 40)
* THM = Themes (Sony Ericsson)
* MMF = Synthetic Music Mobile Application File
* NRT = Nokia Ringtone
* XMF = Extensible Music File
* WBMP = Wireless Bitmap Image
* DVX = DivX Video
* HTML = Hyper Text Markup Language
* WML = Wireless Markup Language
* CD -Compact Disk.
* DVD - Digital Versatile Disk.
*CRT - Cathode Ray Tube.
* DAT - Digital Audio Tape.
* DOS - Disk Operating System.
* GUI -Graphical User Interface.
* HTTP - Hyper Text Transfer Protocol.
* IP - Internet Protocol.
* ISP - Internet Service Provider.
* TCP - Transmission Control Protocol.
* UPS - Uninterruptible Power Supply.
* HSDPA - High Speed Downlink PacketAccess.
* EDGE - Enhanced Data Rate for GSM[GlobalSystem for Mobile Communication] Evolution.
* VHF - Very High Frequency.
* UHF - Ultra High Frequency.
* GPRS - General PacketRadio Service.
* WAP - Wireless ApplicationProtocol.
* TCP - Transmission ControlProtocol .
* ARPANET - Advanced ResearchProject Agency Network.
* IBM - International Business Machines.
* HP - Hewlett Packard.
*AM/FM - Amplitude/ Frequency Modulation.
* WLAN - Wireless Local Area Network
* VIRUS - Vital Information Resource UnderSeized.
* 3G -3rd Generation.
* GSM - Global System for Mobile Communication.
* CDMA - Code Divison Multiple Access.
* UMTS - Universal MobileTelecommunication System.
* SIM - Subscriber Identity Module .
* AVI = Audio Video Interleave
* RTS = Real Time Streaming
* SIS = Symbian OS Installer File
* AMR = Adaptive Multi-Rate Codec
* JAD = Java Application Descriptor
* JAR = Java Archive
* JAD = Java Application Descriptor
* 3GPP = 3rd Generation Partnership Project
* 3GP = 3rd Generation Project
* MP3 = MPEG player lll
* MP4 = MPEG-4 video file
*AAC = Advanced Audio Coding
* GIF= Graphic Interchangeable Format
* JPEG = Joint Photographic Expert Group
* BMP = Bitmap
* SWF = Shock Wave Flash
* WMV = Windows Media Video
* WMA = Windows Media Audio
* WAV = Waveform Audio
* PNG = Portable Network Graphics
* DOC = Document (MicrosoftCorporation)
* PDF = Portable Document Format
* M3G = Mobile 3D Graphics
* M4A = MPEG-4 Audio File
* NTH = Nokia Theme (series 40)
* THM = Themes (Sony Ericsson)
* MMF = Synthetic Music Mobile Application File
* NRT = Nokia Ringtone
* XMF = Extensible Music File
* WBMP = Wireless Bitmap Image
* DVX = DivX Video
* HTML = Hyper Text Markup Language
* WML = Wireless Markup Language
* CD -Compact Disk.
* DVD - Digital Versatile Disk.
*CRT - Cathode Ray Tube.
* DAT - Digital Audio Tape.
* DOS - Disk Operating System.
* GUI -Graphical User Interface.
* HTTP - Hyper Text Transfer Protocol.
* IP - Internet Protocol.
* ISP - Internet Service Provider.
* TCP - Transmission Control Protocol.
* UPS - Uninterruptible Power Supply.
* HSDPA - High Speed Downlink PacketAccess.
* EDGE - Enhanced Data Rate for GSM[GlobalSystem for Mobile Communication] Evolution.
* VHF - Very High Frequency.
* UHF - Ultra High Frequency.
* GPRS - General PacketRadio Service.
* WAP - Wireless ApplicationProtocol.
* TCP - Transmission ControlProtocol .
* ARPANET - Advanced ResearchProject Agency Network.
* IBM - International Business Machines.
* HP - Hewlett Packard.
*AM/FM - Amplitude/ Frequency Modulation.
* WLAN - Wireless Local Area Network
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